Parent’s Speech Guidelines
We understand what an exciting day this is for you and your family and friends. We have to remember that a B’nai Mitzvah is a religious service which takes place in a synagogue, a holy place. There is a certain dignity that we should maintain during this service and in the past, some parents have presented speeches that might not have been in line with this dignity.
Therefore, we have set forth the following “guidelines” for you to follow:
Please make the subject matter of your speech as close to the Torah portion as you can. Use it to teach a lesson to your child and/or the congregation.
Use the speech as a time to express your true feelings for your child and not necessarily a time to list all of their accomplishments.
Try not to go back to the day of conception…talk about the young adult that stands before us, today.
Keep it short.. it’s not a testimonial. One page…150 words.
Give your speech with the dignity that a synagogue bimah should have.The following subjects are not appropriate: Diapering, baby talk, lengthy quotations, ski trips, vacations, sports teams, eating at MacDonald's on Saturdays, etc.
Be loving!
The reception is a wonderful place to express lengthy appreciation of your child and your guests.
Ask the rabbi for suggestions.
Thanks for understanding!